{"id":2075,"date":"2015-09-09T18:38:10","date_gmt":"2015-09-09T15:38:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dokuzadabirdeniz.com\/?p=2075"},"modified":"2016-02-11T02:13:43","modified_gmt":"2016-02-11T00:13:43","slug":"kizli-erkekli-tartisip-duruyoruz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dokuzadabirdeniz.com\/?p=2075","title":{"rendered":"K\u0131zl\u0131 erkekli tart\u0131\u015f\u0131p duruyoruz…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Filiz Ayla<\/strong> – Heybeliada<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00d6nce bir \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131k sonra kendimizi kategorize edilmi\u015f bulduk; k\u0131zl\u0131 erkekli. Cinsiyet \u00fczerinden bir tan\u0131m gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de asl\u0131nda bu cinsellik \u00fczerinden bir tan\u0131md\u0131, hem de heretoseks\u00fcel \"kadin3\"<\/a>cinsellik \u00fczerinden bir tan\u0131m. Buna yabanc\u0131 de\u011filiz \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuzdan beri ne zaman k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131m yapmak istesek hayat\u0131m\u0131zda a\u00e7\u0131k ya da \u00f6rt\u00fck bi\u00e7imde cinsellik temelli uyar\u0131lara maruz kal\u0131r\u0131z. Ama burada durum biraz farkl\u0131 uyar\u0131 anne babadan kom\u015fudan gelmiyor dosdo\u011fru devletten geliyor. Merak\u0131m ise bu yakla\u015f\u0131m ne kadar devletl\u00fb\u2019lerin fantazilerinden kaynaklan\u0131yor?<\/span><\/p>\n

Burada kastedilen ayn\u0131 ya\u015flarda olan farkl\u0131 cinsiyete sahip insanlar de\u011fil mi. Oysa k\u0131zl\u0131-erkekli s\u00f6z\u00fc bize \u201chmm bunlar ayn\u0131 ya\u015fda\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcrtm\u00fcyor. Mesela ikilinin di\u015fi olan\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015f\u00e7a daha k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck oldu\u011funu ya da hen\u00fcz hi\u00e7 bir cinsel etkinli\u011finin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Erkek ise tabii b\u00fcy\u00fck, kendi karar\u0131n\u0131 verebilen, k\u0131z\u0131 da kand\u0131rabilecek olan hatta ad\u0131 \u00fczerinde \u201cerkek\u201d i\u015fte. O halde laf h\u0131zla fantaziye kay\u0131yor ki masum k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z ve k\u00f6t\u00fc b\u00fcy\u00fck erkek fantazisine yani k\u0131zl\u0131-erkekli. Oysa konu kad\u0131nl\u0131-erkekli diye tan\u0131mlanabilirdi ya da k\u0131zl\u0131-o\u011flanl\u0131 diye ama yap\u0131lmad\u0131, akla bile gelmedi. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kad\u0131nl\u0131 erkekli dendi\u011finde korunacak kimse kalmayacakt\u0131, her ikisinin de yeti\u015fkin oldu\u011fu kabul edilmi\u015f olacakt\u0131. Ve iddia havada kalacakt\u0131. K\u0131zl\u0131-o\u011flanl\u0131 dendi\u011finde ise zaten ne i\u015fi var o s\u00fcbyanlar\u0131n \u00fcniversitede denecekti. K\u0131zl\u0131-erkekli ise bizi iddia sahiplerinin fantazi d\u00fcnyas\u0131na g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcyor, maalesef.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu fantazi d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ok pornografik oldu\u011funu da biliyoruz zaten.\u00a0\u00a0 \u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerini \u00f6zellikle de kad\u0131n ve erkek aras\u0131ndaki her t\u00fcrl\u00fc ileti\u015fimi cinselli\u011fe ba\u011flayan bir fantazi d\u00fcnyas\u0131d\u0131r bu. Mesela kad\u0131n\u0131n sa\u00e7\u0131, derisi, eli, bile\u011fi bile s\u00fcrekli k\u0131\u015fk\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 cinsel nesne olabilir. Kad\u0131n\u0131n gebeli\u011fi bile nas\u0131l da gebe kald\u0131 acaba neler yapt\u0131 gebe kalmak i\u00e7in keyif mi ald\u0131 yoksa almad\u0131 m\u0131 ald\u0131ysa \u00e7ocuk \u015fu cinsten olabilir yoksa bu, altta m\u0131yd\u0131, \u00fcstte miydi y\u00fczy\u00fcze miydi yoksa yanyana m\u0131yd\u0131lar o zaman da …. diye her ayr\u0131nt\u0131 cinsel uyaran nedeni olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"kadin1\"<\/a><\/p>\n

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Filiz Ayla – Heybeliada \u00d6nce bir \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131k sonra kendimizi kategorize edilmi\u015f bulduk; k\u0131zl\u0131 erkekli. Cinsiyet \u00fczerinden bir tan\u0131m gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de asl\u0131nda bu cinsellik \u00fczerinden bir tan\u0131md\u0131, hem de heretoseks\u00fcel cinsellik \u00fczerinden bir tan\u0131m. Buna yabanc\u0131 de\u011filiz \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuzdan beri ne zaman k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131m yapmak istesek hayat\u0131m\u0131zda a\u00e7\u0131k ya da \u00f6rt\u00fck bi\u00e7imde cinsellik temelli uyar\u0131lara …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2494,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[102,1,80,49],"tags":[114],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dokuzadabirdeniz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2075"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dokuzadabirdeniz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dokuzadabirdeniz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dokuzadabirdeniz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dokuzadabirdeniz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2075"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dokuzadabirdeniz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2075\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3214,"href":"https:\/\/dokuzadabirdeniz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2075\/revisions\/3214"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dokuzadabirdeniz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2494"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dokuzadabirdeniz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2075"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dokuzadabirdeniz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2075"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dokuzadabirdeniz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2075"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}